Dating cancelled date
Basically, guys who stand women up find something better to do, get distracted, and are not interested in the fact that we might be spending hours making sure a million tiny things are perfect. Here are my tips: You need to seem like you’re too distracted because you have so much going on. You were just too busy to even remember you had a date.
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2) You’re Already Bored Another thing that can happen when we finally set up a first meeting with a particularly hot woman is that we COMPLETELY OVERLOOK the fact that she has the personality of a paper clip. She’ll be much happier with a guy who’s conversation enraptures her a bit more than yours.
Let’s face it, if you’re dreading the date more than you’re excited about it-primarily because you’re 100% sure the conversation is going to be awkward, at best-it’s time to grow some self-respect and cancel the date. Yeah, this is a variation on the “it’s not you, it’s me” concept, but it’s also probably true.
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Honestly, I’m a bit surprised that literally NOBODY ever has covered this subject in the world of men’s dating and seduction advice, at least as far as I’ve seen.
Simply call out the gorilla in the room: You’re sure she’s a “great person” or something, but the two of you just seem to be missing each other.
Be the man here and save her the (further) discomfort of bringing it up herself. Tell her she’s very “nice”, but that you don’t think the two of you are a match.
Free the woman up to go out with someone who cares. But as a “selector” who is in total control of his dating life, you’ve got to draw the line on where “testing” turns into blatant game playing or even flat-out manipulation. And it had better be a REAL GOOD one, along the lines of #6 or #7 below.
3) Signs Of Games, Potential Flakiness, Or Getting Played If this one doesn’t get to the very heart of “self-respect”, I don’t know what does. For example, if she calls you at 3 in the afternoon on the day you are allegedly supposed to take her out that night and says, “Oh, heyâ€¦I can’t make it. If you want to be the leader in this situation, again call it as you see it. I realize some may tell you to cut her off right then and there, but in my mind to do that smacks of personal insecurity. Sometimes stuff really does come up, and you have to respect that.