College dating for guys
Maybe my new “dating strategy” is a response to my flings with Harvard guys that went nowhere, or instances when the guys that I liked found girlfriends before I could tell them how I felt.But I think the biggest reason I have become jaded by looking for relationships at Harvard is related to one disappointing realization: that men who seemed to be interested in me for more than physical attraction were actually pursuing just that.
Instead, I have turned to the “dating” apps that rarely lead to serious relationships, braving the inevitable corny pick-up lines and overt invitations.Guys may be used to the idea of paying for their dates' meals and drinks and tickets, but it's possible that the guys you date after college cannot afford to be chivalrous.Which is fine, because it's 2013, and you're more than able to step up to the plate. Dating in the real world is a bit—OK, WAY—different from dating in college.You're Going to Have to Put in a Bit More Effort. But you're going to have to actively put effort into putting yourself in situations where you're likely Just graduated college? The rules change the moment you hand in the keys to your dorm room.